💍 Mind Your Manners, Dollface: 15 Wedding Etiquette Musts for Every Guest

Because even if you’re not the bride, you don’t want to be the scandal of the soirée!

Listen up, sugarplum—if you’ve been lucky enough to score an invite to someone’s “I Do” day, you’d better bring more than your dance shoes and a good red lip. Whether you’re a traditional debutante or a modern gal with sass and a smartphone, being a top-tier wedding guest is a lost art we’re bringing back with cherry-red style.

So, grab your clutch, slip into those kitten heels, and let’s talk about the top 15 wedding etiquette rules every guest needs to know—served with vintage sass and modern smarts.

💒 1. RSVP On Time, Toots!

Traditional Rule: Mail that response card back ASAP (as in, within a week of receiving it).
Modern Twist: It’s usually digital these days—click that link, don’t ghost the happy couple.
Example: Late RSVPs mess up the headcount, sugar. It’s not cute.

👗 2. Don’t Wear White (Or Cream, Or Ecru…)

Traditional Rule: Only the bride wears white. Period.
Modern Twist: Still true, unless the couple specifically invites guests to wear white.
Example: Wearing ivory is like bringing your own cake to someone else’s birthday. Rude!

📱 3. Put That Phone Away During the Ceremony

Traditional Rule: Quiet, respectful, and present.
Modern Twist: Some weddings are “unplugged,” which means zero photos during the vows, doll.
Example: Don’t block the pro photographer with your big ol’ iPad like Aunt Linda.

🍽️ 4. Respect the Seating Chart

Traditional Rule: You sit where they seat you, darling.
Modern Twist: It might feel random, but trust—it’s a logistical ballet. Don’t mess with it.
Example: Don’t pull up a chair to the couple’s table unless you’re a Kardashian.

🎁 5. Bring (or Send) a Gift

Traditional Rule: Even if you can’t attend, a gift is still expected.
Modern Twist: Cash or gift cards are just fine—registry or no registry.
Example: Skip the blender if it’s not on their list. Nobody wants seven blenders.

🗣️ 6. Keep Your Opinions to Yourself

Traditional Rule: Don’t critique the flowers, dress, or vows.
Modern Twist: Definitely don’t live-tweet complaints.
Example: If you wouldn’t say it to the bride’s mama, don’t post it on Instagram.

🍷 7. Don’t Get Sloshed, Sweetheart

Traditional Rule: Mind your champagne intake.
Modern Twist: Enjoy, but don’t be that guest who ends up singing Britney on the mic.
Example: Aunt Marge flashing the DJ booth? Let’s avoid a repeat.

💃 8. Get on the Dance Floor

Traditional Rule: Participate in the celebration. It’s polite!
Modern Twist: The couple spent good money on that DJ—shake it, don’t fake it.
Example: Do the Twist, the Hustle, or the Wobble. Just do something.

🕑 9. Be Punctual

Traditional Rule: Arrive 15–30 minutes early to the ceremony.
Modern Twist: Fashionably late does not apply at weddings.
Example: Don’t waltz in during the vows in clicky heels and a feathered fascinator.

👜 10. Don’t Assume a Plus-One

Traditional Rule: Only bring who’s listed on the invitation.
Modern Twist: Still true. No surprise dates, sugar.
Example: Your “situationship” from Tinder doesn’t qualify.

🍼 11. Check If It’s a Kid-Free Wedding

Traditional Rule: If kids weren’t listed on the invite, get a sitter.
Modern Twist: Respect the vibe. Some couples want grown-up glam, not Goldfish crackers in the aisle.
Example: “No kids” means no kids—not even little Timmy dressed as a ring bearer.

🍴 12. Respect Meal Choices & Allergies

Traditional Rule: RSVP with your meal choice and keep it moving.
Modern Twist: Don’t throw a fit if you didn’t get the beef.
Example: It’s a wedding, not your private tasting menu.

💌 13. Don’t Bring Drama

Traditional Rule: Keep your exes and your issues at home.
Modern Twist: Still true, times ten.
Example: Weddings aren’t the time to confront your cousin Karen about that family reunion in 2017.

📸 14. Tag Thoughtfully

Traditional Rule: N/A in 1955, baby—but if it were, Polaroids would’ve been hush-hush.
Modern Twist: Only post pics the couple is okay with. Use their hashtag if they made one.
Example: Don’t post the bride’s crying makeup selfie unless she’s cool with it.

🎉 15. Celebrate the Couple!

Traditional Rule: You’re there to honor love. Act like it.
Modern Twist: Share their joy, cheer them on, and enjoy the ride.
Example: Be the kind of guest you’d want at your wedding.

🎀 Wrap It Up, Cupcake

Being a stellar wedding guest isn’t about pearls and posture (though that helps)—it’s about respect, joy, and celebrating love with heart and grace, whether you’re wearin’ kitten heels or Converse.

But hey, if planning all this etiquette-friendly fabulousness sounds overwhelming—you know who to call…

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From guest guides to grand entrances, Cherry Pop Events serves up vintage glam with modern magic. We’ll help brides create unforgettable experiences—and even make sure you, darling guest, know when to clap, when to sip, and when to sit down.

✨ So whether you’re the bride, the bridesmaid, or the bossy cousin who means well—call Cherry Pop Events and let us keep your day sugar-sweet and scandal-free! 💌

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