Picture this, darling: Your big day is supposed to be glamorous, sophisticated, and a whole lot of fun — for you, your guests, and the tiny tots who are a part of it. But let’s face it, sweet cheeks: children, much like a mischievous poodle under the dinner table, can sometimes… well… spoil the mood if you’re not careful.
Don’t fret, doll! Here’s the low-down — straight from your favorite 1950s hostess — on navigating kids at your wedding with style, a little discipline, and a whole lot of love.
🌟 DO’s:
âś… Designate Jobs to Keep Small Hands Busy:
Hand your flower girls and ring bearers a little “job” — whether it’s passing out programs, holding a cute “Here Comes the Bride” sign, or ringing a tiny bell to celebrate you and your beau. It makes them feel special and responsible.
âś… Create Kid-Friendly Spaces:
Consider adding a “Junior Lounge” at your reception with coloring books, puzzles, a small craft table, or a stack of board games. The children will appreciate their own corner — and you’ll appreciate not having them dart between the adult dinner seats.
âś… Offer Kid-Safe Foods:
Instead of a plate of sophisticated food that might send tiny taste buds into a tizzy, serve up kid-faves — mini sliders, mac and cheese, fruit skewers, and cookies. Everyone’s a happy camper when their tummies are full.
âś… Consider a Babysitter or Activity Leader:
If you have a large number of children attending, consider hiring a sitter or “child wrangler” to keep the peace and oversee activities. That way the grown-up guests can let their hair down without worrying about the young ones.
🌟 DON’TS:
❌ Don’t Let Kids Run Wild:
Designate a space for children and set clear boundaries. Otherwise, you may find yourself with a chorus of high-pitched squeals during your first toast — not exactly the soundtrack you were going for, darling.
❌ Don’t Say “Yes” To Everyone:
If you’d rather celebrate without children present, it’s perfectly acceptable to have an adults-only affair. The key is to be clear and tactful on your invitation — more on this in a moment, glamorous.
❌ Don’t Give Jobs That Require Supervision:
Your tiny guests are cute, not responsible adults. Stick to roles that are age-appropriate and light — a flower petal toss or a “Here Comes the Bride” sign — not a huge stack of programs or organizing a toast.
🌟 HOW TO LET FOLKS KNOW YOUR WEDDING IS ADULTS-ONLY:
âś… Make It Clear on Your Invitations:
Using phrases like “Adults-Only Celebration”, “Cocktail Attire — 18 and Older Please”, or “We Love Your Kids, But This Party Is Adults-Only” lets guests know immediately what to expect.
âś… Address Invites Appropriately:
Instead of addressing the invitation to “The Peterson Family”— which signals everyone is invited — address it to “Mr. and Mrs. Peterson” to convey you’re only expecting the two adults.
âś… Mention It on Your Wedding Website:
Your website is a lovely place to kindly explain your policy in more detail. Try something charming, like:
“To give all our guests a chance to celebrate without distractions, we’re requesting an adults-only affair. We appreciate your understanding and hope you enjoy a wonderful night on the town!”
🌟 Final Tip — Handle It with Sweetness:
Your guests — whether parents or not — appreciate a gentle delivery. Say it with a 1950s twist:
“Dollfaces, we love you all to the Moon and back, but this shindig is a glamorous, grown-up affair. So find a sitter, put on your best duds, and come toast the future with us in style!”
With these dos and don’ts, you’re sure to navigate your wedding plans gracefully, charmingly, and without a single tiny riot. Whether you’re honoring the kids you love or choosing a sophisticated adults-only mood, you’re making sure your big day shines just the way you envisioned — a perfect blend of love, style, and happiness.
Want help designing a kid-friendly corner or figuring out exactly how to word your invitation? Whatever you need, doll, Cherry Pop Events is here to help you make it picture-perfect! 🌹
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