💍 Don’t Be That Doll: How to Plan Your Wedding Without Going Full Bridezilla

Because you can say “I do” without losing your marbles, manners, or maid of honor.


Alright, sweetheart—planning a wedding is no walk in the soda shop. Between your Pinterest board, your fiancé’s opinions (how darling!), and your mama breathing down your neck about the guest list, it’s easy to slip from blushing bride to full-blown bridezilla faster than you can say “tulle explosion.”

But don’t worry, cupcake—Cherry Pop Events is here to help you keep your cool, your class, and your crown. So, grab a milkshake and settle in, ‘cause we’re about to give you a sassy, vintage-inspired rundown on how not to turn your big day into a big ol’ mess.


🚫 Bridezilla Behavior #1: “The Control Queen”

“No one else can do it right. I’ll just do everything myself.”

You’re waking up at 3am wondering if the napkins should be blush or ballet pink. You’re correcting your coordinator’s checklist. You’re micromanaging the cake baker’s calendar.

Cope Like a Lady:

  1. Delegate like a boss: Assign tasks to your wedding party and trust them to deliver.
  2. Use a planning tool: Try HoneyBook or Aisle Planner to keep everyone looped in.
  3. Remind yourself: Perfection isn’t the goal—joy is.

💄 Sassy Tip: A bride who refuses help ends up crying in a porta-potty. Don’t be that bride.


🚫 Bridezilla Behavior #2: “The Budget Buster”

“I need the gold-plated invitations, Swarovski bouquet, and fireworks exit!”

Sweetheart, unless you’ve got Rockefeller blood, it’s time to bring that fantasy back down to Earth.

Cope Like a Lady:

  1. Prioritize your must-haves: Spend smart on things that truly matter to you.
  2. Get creative: DIY doesn’t mean it has to look homemade (just check Pinterest).
  3. Build in buffer: Add 10–15% to your budget for those “oops” expenses.

💄 Sassy Tip: A beautiful wedding isn’t about the bling—it’s about the love. Plus, savings look real good in a joint checking account.


🚫 Bridezilla Behavior #3: “The Guest List Dictator”

“If Aunt Joan can’t sit next to Cousin Betty, then maybe NO ONE gets to come!”

Family feuds and passive-aggressive RSVPs? Sounds like a holiday dinner, not your wedding.

Cope Like a Lady:

  1. Create zones: Seat guests by energy, not bloodline. If they bicker, keep ’em separated.
  2. Keep your circle tight: Only invite people who lift you up, not bring you stress.
  3. Stand your ground (nicely): It’s your day, not a family reunion war zone.

💄 Sassy Tip: Aunt Joan will survive if she doesn’t get to toast with the bride. This ain’t her show.


🚫 Bridezilla Behavior #4: “The Insta-Obsessed Bride”

“If it’s not Instagrammable, what’s the point?”

Sure, we love a good flat lay and a swoony reel—but if you’re planning for the ‘Gram and not your groom, we’ve got a problem, sugar.

Cope Like a Lady:

  1. Design for experience, not just aesthetics: Think guest comfort, not just filters.
  2. Hire a photographer who gets your vibe: Let them worry about the shots.
  3. Put the phone down: Be present. Be in love. Be fabulous in real life.

💄 Sassy Tip: Likes are cute, but love lasts longer than a 15-second story.


🚫 Bridezilla Behavior #5: “The Emotional Tornado”

“If ONE more thing goes wrong, I swear I’ll scream!”

One vendor runs late and suddenly it’s a three-act soap opera. Take a breath, sugarplum.

Cope Like a Lady:

  1. Expect the hiccups: Something will go sideways. Have a plan—and a backup plan.
  2. Schedule self-care: Face masks, baths, therapy—whatever keeps you calm and glowing.
  3. Lean on your planner (or hire one): You don’t have to fix everything. That’s why we exist.

💄 Sassy Tip: No one remembers the minor mishaps. They remember the joy in your eyes, not the size of your centerpieces.


💡 Bonus Tips from Cherry Pop’s Emergency Kit:

  • Eat something. Hangry brides make dramatic choices.
  • Have a “Bride Buffer”: A trusted friend or your planner to run interference.
  • Skip the drama squad: If they’ve caused chaos before, don’t give them a starring role now.
  • Remember your partner: This is a celebration, not a one-woman variety show.

🍒 Let Cherry Pop Events Keep You Sane & Sparkly

At Cherry Pop Events, we specialize in fabulous weddings without the frenzy. From custom planning packages to last-minute coordination, we’re your behind-the-scenes dream team, keeping you calm, confident, and completely bride-chilla.

If you’re ready to hand off the stress and keep your lipstick un-smudged, we’re ready to make your big day pop—without the drama.

Say goodbye to bridezilla. Say hello to Cherry Pop.
Let’s Plan Your Dream Day


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I’m Laura

southern california cherry pop events Founder Laura kinniburgh

Well, butter my biscuit and call it fate — Laura Kinniburgh was born to plan a party, baby. With more than 20 years of experience wrangling everything from wild backyard birthdays to swoon-worthy weddings, this single mama of three and fearless founder of Cherry Pop Events has turned event chaos into cherry-topped charm one celebration at a time.

Raised on glitter, gumption, and a whole lotta “I’ve got this,” Laura’s been dazzling the Southern California event scene with her signature blend of 1950s sass, sky-high standards, and enough heart to power a vintage Cadillac. Whether she’s designing a dreamy full-service wedding or swooping in as a Day-Of Coordinator superhero, she’s got the eye, the hustle, and the humor to pull it all together without breaking a sweat (or a nail).

When she’s not knee-deep in linens, timelines, and seating charts, Laura’s wrangling her three incredible kids, walking her three rowdy pups, and proving that you can be a powerhouse planner and still make time for pancakes on Sunday.

So, whether you’re lost in the land of “where do I even start?” or just need a fairy godmother in cherry red heels — Laura’s your gal. And with Cherry Pop Events, she’s made it her mission to make wedding planning feel less like a meltdown and more like a martini. Because darling, love deserves a party — and Laura was born to throw it. 🍒💋

LOVE IS LOVE.

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