💃🏽 To Elope or Not to Elope?

The Good, the Glam, and the “Gracious, What Now?” of Running Away in Style

So, you’re head-over-heels and knee-deep in love… but a 300-guest extravaganza isn’t your scene? Honey, eloping might just be your ticket to stress-free, champagne-popping bliss — and no one plans a stylish getaway quite like Cherry Pop Events. 💋

Let’s talk about what makes eloping so dreamy—and where the trouble might bubble over, too.


🌟 The Pros of Eloping (a.k.a. Why It’s Hotter Than a Fresh Set of Hot Rollers)

1. It’s Intimate, Baby
Just the two of you and the vows. No long-lost cousins. No awkward coworkers. Pure, unfiltered romance.

2. It Saves the Big Bucks
Cut the cost, not the charm. Put that cash toward a down payment, a bombshell honeymoon, or even a post-elopement bash with a little help from Cherry Pop Events.

3. It’s (Gasp!) Stress-Free
No family drama. No seating charts. No trying to remember if Uncle Bob is allergic to gluten.

4. It’s All About You
Courthouse chic, mountaintop magic, or Vegas vibes with Elvis—do it your way.

5. Say “I Do” Faster
Tired of waiting? Eloping skips the year-long lead-up and goes straight to the good part.


😬 The Cons (Because We Keep It Real)

1. Some Feelings Might Get Hurt
Mom may gasp. Aunt Debbie might need a fainting couch. But there are ways to soften the blow (more on that in a jiffy!).

2. You’ll Miss the Big Group Celebration
No dance floor conga line. No first look with Dad. That magical reception energy? Gone, unless you host something later (hello, Cherry Pop Planning Package 💁‍♀️).

3. Planning Still Happens
Don’t kid yourself—it’s not no planning, it’s smart planning. Let Cherry Pop Events keep it stress-free and fabulous.


💍 Steps to Plan a Perfect Elopement

1. Choose the Date + Dreamy Location
Courthouse, cliffside, or candlelit forest clearing—it’s your party, sweetheart.

2. Handle the Paperwork
Marriage license, IDs, permits if needed. Boring but necessary.

3. Book a Few Key Vendors
You still deserve stunning photos, a bouquet, and maybe a cake! Cherry Pop’s got an elopement vendor list longer than Aunt Ida’s stories.

4. Dress to Impress
Whether it’s a vintage circle dress or a sleek white jumpsuit, you deserve to feel like a star.

5. Make It Magical
Write personal vows. Pack bubbly. Bring tissues. This is your big moment—even if it’s tiny.


🫢 How to Break the News (Without Starting Family Drama)

We get it. You’re glowing with post-elopement joy—but your mother-in-law might be glowing for other reasons.

1. Be Proactive, Not Secretive
Don’t let them find out from your Insta Story. Share the news with love and intention.

Try this:

“We wanted something small and sacred just for us—but we love you and can’t wait to celebrate soon!”

2. Send Announcement Cards
Nothing says class like a vintage-style “We Did It!” in the mail. Include a fab photo and a heartfelt message.

3. Host a Celebration After
Give them the party they craved (minus the seating chart headaches). And of course, Cherry Pop Events is ready to glam that guest list.


🚨 Cautionary Tales (You’ll Thank Us Later)

⚠️ Forgot the Marriage License
They said “I do” in Greece. Came home… unmarried. Oops.

⚠️ Family Found Out via Facebook
Let’s just say Christmas was awkward.

⚠️ The Bride Wore Heels on a Cliff
She limped down the aisle with two twisted ankles and a lopsided veil.

The lesson? Even small weddings need big brains. Let Cherry Pop Events keep the “oops” off your elopement.


💌 Bonus Tips to Make It Extra Dreamy

  • 🎀 Hire a glam squad for those up-close vow photos.
  • 🎶 Bring a speaker or live soloist to set the mood.
  • 📖 Write each other letters to read before the ceremony.
  • 🍰 Order a mini cake or sweet treat—no wedding is complete without dessert.
  • 💌 Send personalized announcements or even livestream the moment.

💄 Final Thoughts from Your Favorite Retro Romance Experts

Eloping isn’t “settling”—it’s a sparkling, heartfelt, and fabulous way to say “I do” on your own terms. Whether you go full Audrey Hepburn or Rockabilly rebel, Cherry Pop Events is here to make sure it’s dreamy, stylish, and totally stress-free.

Need a partner in retro crime for your big escape?
We’ve got the lipstick, the checklist, and the know-how to make it a day to remember.

👠 Plan your dreamy elopement with Cherry Pop Events today.

Because darling, love may be spontaneous…
but good style? That’s always planned. 💋


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I’m Laura

southern california cherry pop events Founder Laura kinniburgh

Well, butter my biscuit and call it fate — Laura Kinniburgh was born to plan a party, baby. With more than 20 years of experience wrangling everything from wild backyard birthdays to swoon-worthy weddings, this single mama of three and fearless founder of Cherry Pop Events has turned event chaos into cherry-topped charm one celebration at a time.

Raised on glitter, gumption, and a whole lotta “I’ve got this,” Laura’s been dazzling the Southern California event scene with her signature blend of 1950s sass, sky-high standards, and enough heart to power a vintage Cadillac. Whether she’s designing a dreamy full-service wedding or swooping in as a Day-Of Coordinator superhero, she’s got the eye, the hustle, and the humor to pull it all together without breaking a sweat (or a nail).

When she’s not knee-deep in linens, timelines, and seating charts, Laura’s wrangling her three incredible kids, walking her three rowdy pups, and proving that you can be a powerhouse planner and still make time for pancakes on Sunday.

So, whether you’re lost in the land of “where do I even start?” or just need a fairy godmother in cherry red heels — Laura’s your gal. And with Cherry Pop Events, she’s made it her mission to make wedding planning feel less like a meltdown and more like a martini. Because darling, love deserves a party — and Laura was born to throw it. 🍒💋

LOVE IS LOVE.

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